The fact that you let this guy into your house tells me he was giving off signals. Signals such as "I am not a threat" which it appears that he was not.
Signals like "I am good looking and know it. I am confident. Women want me."
He thought you were hot and figured "Why not give her the opportunity to have some fun." (If you don't think your hot, just ask your hubby (assuming he is not a democrat))
Next time he makes a delivery, make sure you have a girl friend with you. :-)
Interestingly : ), I had read a book at one time called The Gift Of Fear, by Gavin de Becker. It's a great book about listening to those "signals" and taking seriously what your subconscious mind is telling you about someone. I was apprehensive about letting this guy in my house (he said he wanted to use my phone, and I stupidly let him in when I could just as easily brought a cordless phone outside...and I'm fairly sure, in retrospect, that the "call" he made wasn't real), but I didn't listen to my intuition.
He thought you were hot and figured "Why not give her the opportunity to have some fun." (If you don't think your hot, just ask your hubby (assuming he is not a democrat))
Well, yes, I think you're right. He thought I was friendly and a fun person. Why he thought that meant I would consider having sex with a complete stranger still escapes me, unless he reads the aforementioned magazine, and thinks that represents reality somehow. LOL
(BTW, I don't have to ask my husband - a conservative - whether he thinks I'm hot. I know he thinks so...but I think it's because he knows me, not because of the way I look.)
Next time he makes a delivery, make sure you have a girl friend with you. :-)
Oh, sure. I know what you're suggesting. I can hear the backbeat already. ; ) (It ain't gonna happen! LOL)