You hit the nail on the head. I don't have a problem with what people decide to do in their bedrooms, dungeons, bath houses etc. When they have parades and special days dedicated to their "lifestyle" then I have a problem. If they are performing acts in public, I have a problem. Their life centers around their sexuality, that's unhealthy, but fine-, just keep it to themselves, don't preach it to kids as being normal because it isn't. You can have massive Gay Day celebrations and pervert parades with people decked out in their S&M gear but try and have a Christian Parade, say one at Easter where Christ is displayed on a cross and abortion is brought to people's attention, marriage and the family is celebrated and see the kind of resistance and protests that you get, lawsuits against the city for allowing/sactioning it, etc.