[Houmatt]

I think what you say here, about birth-defects, is important......there are, everyday, children born, and the doctors are unsure as to what gender they actually are...because at birth its not clear....

I don't buy into this line about God not making mistakes

But it is clear you have no idea what you are talking about. Hermaphroditism is extremely rare, and at least in the latter case, the gender that physically manifests is the one that child is.

[andysandmikesmom]

I surely do know what I am talking about...try watching a few documentaries about this subject...Its not something I am making up... Hermaphroditism may be rare, but it does exist...

There were several people in this group of people who had been through gender reassignment surgeries when very young children...the advice of the docs was, that they, the doctors would make the hest choice that they could, and that the parents should treat the child as if the child was born that gender...sometimes, it apparently was the wrong choice, at least according to these people who had the surgeries done as babies or small children....

And as far as I am concerned, what you think about what I do or dont know is irrelevant.