I think from this and your previous posts you have a psychological problem. Most people don't want to discuss their personal sex life like this. I think there are chat rooms where people do this, maybe you should consider going to one of them.
Yes, intense dislike of busybody moral ayatollah brownshirts.
The fact that you're ignorant of the normal sexual practices of the huge vast majority of Americans is very, very telling.
This, from someone who can't conceive that married couples would possibly engage in acts of sodomy.