YOU, employee, don't scandalize folks and WE, church, will keep you on. Since we're all sinners, and since Catholics place a high value on the group staying entact as much as possible, there needs to be some flexibility. On the other hand, 45 years ago this issue wouldn't be popping up everywhere.
Musicians have been more suspect of homosexual tendencies (as a group) than many others.
You are correct: there's a greater sensitivity to the homosexual problem in the RC Church lately.