You and me, girlfriend!
Arguably, the number one fear traditional Muslim men have regards losing control over their women. The traditional Muslim belief is that the honor of the family resides in the women. Non-Muslim (this includes non-Western societies such as Japan) cultural influence, however, gives women ideas ... that they can can get an education, work outside of the home, choose their husbands and not tolerate being beaten. That they/we have intrinsic value and do not exist simply to serve men.
One thing that I would add is that a Muslim man in a non-Muslim country is like an alcoholic let loose in an liquor store -- party time! The 9-11 hijackers were having a grand old time, drinking and visiting strip clubs before the fateful day. They consider Western women to be whores but they try to take advantage!
I don't think men will ever figure out what it is that gets American women so riled when it comes to islam. They have no idea.
In a post-Islamic world....my days would be numbered.
Unlike the guy who chose a nick to match his gonads, I will fight to the death before I see good American women like you forced into burkahs. Count on it.