I agree she doesn't sound like an atheist at all. More like a questioning Jew who needs an emergency rabbi -- the kind where you rush into the nearest kosher kitchen, break open the glassed-in emergency-rabbinical cabinet, and rush the rabbi inside to the nearest halakhic conflagration.
;^)
"LG"
"If you expect me to help you, you're going to have sit there and shut up while I'm talking."