[freemama]

About the NYC controversy: the issue isn't about him being authorized to participate by his superiors. The issue is about personal responsibility as a pastor. He knew there would be leaders of false religions there. He knew there would be prayers by them to their gods. He also knew any prayer he led that didn't specifically declare Christ would be prayed by the followers of these false religions to their gods. As a religious leader he was responsible to declare Christ in that place. He did not. That is where his fault was. He knew better and did what he wanted anyway.

Now back to the contraception topic. Has your wife-to-be discussed this issue with her minister? Where is she on this?

[redgolum]

Yes she has. She actually told her priest that she wants to go on some sort of birth control at first. Don't know how the discussion went, as I was not present for most of it. She doesn't want to use NFP, and the priest did try to sell it on our initial visit, but backed off rather quickly.