"The difference between us here, I think, is that you see idea of thinking about sex as somehow impure, whereas I see it as a natural bodily function."
I would add that I am not in support of ACTING upon every sexual impulse, nor am I in support of extramarital sex, but I can't be convinced that masturbation, esp. by a priest (since a priest has no other outlet given his Vows) is an evil, impure act, nor a grave sin.
"I would add that I am not in support of ACTING upon every sexual impulse, nor am I in support of extramarital sex, but I can't be convinced that masturbation, esp. by a priest (since a priest has no other outlet given his Vows) is an evil, impure act, nor a grave sin."
I can't remember the exact chapter and verse, but Our Lord told us in Scripture "he whosoever looks upon a woman with lust in his heart commits adultery". I would take this to mean if a man looks at a woman to excite himself sexually, even without touching, he is committing a sin which God equates with breaking the 6th commandment (and 9th).
St. Paul also exhorts men to "control their vessel" and be chaste according to their state in life. I find it difficult to justify when masturbation would be ok based on these few Scripture passages. What would convince you it is a grave sin?
To me it seems most people have no control over their passions and/or let them run wild, which is the philosophy of our modern society. Look at how gluttony is afflicting our society! Don't most of your non-Catholic friends think it somewhat odd to have to fast and obstain on Fridays and during Lent? Why curb our passions?
Our intellect is supposed to lead us, not our lower appetites. We should be pure in thought, word, and deed. Pray to St. Joseph!