Men find repulsive, as a general rule, the hand-holding kumbaya and homilists who preach love, love, love. Find a real church and you'll find real men. A poofter in the pulpit and no real men. We believe in struggling for God.
Kumbaya-loving men are ball-less, following their wives to church.
JMHO.
I think it's now starting to take on physical characteristics, becoming part of their DNA. What characteristics? Wide hips and plump pecs!
BTW, perhaps you've already read it, but a great little book on the subject of masculine Christianity is Man, The Saint, by Fr. J. Urteaga Loidi.