[suzyjaruki]

we've tried to follow just the Bible for six years

but When a wife rejects the scripture

This problem is sin and the sin needs to be addressed and repented of so that the counseling can provide the tools to change the habits the sin has put in place.

[Lexinom]

This problem is sin and the sin needs to be addressed and repented of so that the counseling can provide the tools to change the habits the sin has put in place.

That's a mouthful, but a thoughtful analysis: a soft and penitent heart, submissive to the Scripture, provides the foundation requisite to real change.

You are a wise person.