EXcuse Me!!!!
I feel as if I need to get a group together to instruct you in how to have consistent and multiple orgasms.
Do I?
This is a Family Forum, is it not?
All the orgasmic feeling is in the brain, not in the two gender parts that match so well due to the graphic design of the great Mathemetician we call God.
Jim, don't ban me please.
For those who are married, let me take you on a little journey (you can even keep your clothes on). Get comfortably dressed and sit beside your spouse but don't touch each other. Turn your heads so you can look at each other. Examine her/his face. Get to know that face, pixel by pixel. Study it for at least fifteen minutes. Then, close your eyes and envision that face in front of you. Fall in love with that face. Start breathing as you do when you see that face after he.she has been away for a weekend. Your eyes are closed, but you're beginning to smile. You'd really like to go 'couple' but you are not ready. Neither of you are.
Okay, when your chest is heaving a little, open your eyes and look at your spouse. Place your hand on his/her palm. One hand first. Feel the heat, the intensity. Let your palms caress each other. Look at the face of your spouse as your sensual feelings pass through your palms. Put your other palm together with hers/his. Move your bodies so that you're comfortable. Feel the love in the heat of your palms.
Take one hand and begin to travel up your spouse's arm, slowly caressing it. Gently massaging the other's arm. The MAN with his other hand, slips it behind his wife and into her panties from the back. At the the place where the gluteus maximus meets, below the waist, there is a VERY sensitive spot. The man finds this spot GENTLY and caresses it. Make circles, very very lightly. The WIFE takes her free hand and begins massaging her spouse's chest, slowly, in circles starting high and ending low.
Your breathing becomes sensual, your lips want to touch, your body is screaming at you, but not yet. No my dears, not yet.
Maneuver so that you're laying side by side on the sofa, bed whatever (make sure the top of the grand piano has been put down and be sure that you closed the blinds BEFORE you initiated this "educational course.")
You each have one palm that appears glued to the other's palm. You each have a hand that is making sensuous circles on your spouses body. Her lower back, his chest. Breathing becomes heavy. Kisses start, gently, gently. Let the desire build up until you think you'll explode -- you want each other soooo badly.
Now the rest of the lesson: orgasms for a woman start in the head. The brain is your friend. Let it bubble over with the synthesis of serotonin, dopamine, and norephinepherine for use by brain neurons within your head to bring you to orgasm -- many many orgasms. Wife, relax, let that feeling from your brain travel through your body to the point where you're thinking that if your husband doesn't rip your clothes off, you'll rip his off. When he touches you, allow yourself to shudder, let your breath come into your lungs in small gasps. Direct your husband's hand(s) to where you want him to touch to make you feel those brain synapses spewing all that good serotonin, dopamine, and norephinepherine inside your head.
And enjoy. Not only will you be "ready" for coupling, you'll enjoy it because you prepared your brain to accept the synthesis of the serotonin, dopamine, and norephinepherine.
Eventually you'll learn that you can come to orgasm while your husband plays with your nipples. And other special places on your body.
Guys, remember in the movie "When Harry met Sally" where they're in the restaurant and she tells him women fake orgasms all the time and he doubts it? Well, when you get to know your spouse, she won't have to fake it. She'll be able to look at you, her eyes go soft and her breathing starts in small gasps and all you have to do is touch her and all the juices start flowing because her brain likes to be "high" on serotonin, dopamine, and norephinepherine!
