At the risk of sounding like a broken record, please consider looking East. Short of the TLM, you won't find more reverence. Check your local community at the following link and look into attending an Eastern Catholic Liturgy (not to be confused with the Orthodox Church).
Eastern Catholic Churches in the U.S.
The Eastern Catholic Rites retain the rich heritage of our church, without the "novelties" introduced into the Novus Ordo liturgy. Incense is used throughout.
I just looked at your link. While there are no Eastern Catholic Parishes here in VT, there are some near where we vacation.
Can you tell me what differences there would be between the TLM and Maronite or Byzantine liturgy?