[dangus]

What? Just the opposite! How did you get that? I said to flirt away!

[LongElegantLegs]

Seriously, sexual forwardness in someone known to be a “good, Christian woman” is actually a good thing. Don’t promise what you won’t deliver; that’s what being a tease is. Don’t walk up to a guy, slam him against the car, and give him a kiss that peals the paintjob off, and then tell him you’re busy washing your hair next Friday.

Maybe I'm confused, but it seems like that's what you're saying here. You seem to accept that men should be the initiators, but then you place the burden on women to be approachable and open about what they want.