Dear Brad C.,
"Basically, what it boiled down to was that in days of old, the RCC wanted to be the sole source of knowledge in these matters, and rejected any group that intruded into their domain."
No, I can't agree with that characterization. Rather, the Church is concerned when only part of the truth is taught, and the result is the denigration of other parts of the truth. This, I've personally seen.
"While I am not Catholic, as you can probably tell; I have been a proud member of the Masonic community for a number of years. Through out those years, I can't begin to count the number of men that I have met and am honored to call my brothers."
I personally know Masons whom I think are good folks, and whom I call friends.
"On the other hand, my wife is Catholic and the church will not recognize our now 12 year marriage because her first has not been annulled. Despite the fact that her ex has committed unspeakable acts and sins, which were well known by the church at our previous home."
Not knowing the circumstances of your wife's previous relationship, it is entirely beyond me to offer any comment other than that I pray that it can be worked out. I will only note that the validity of a sacramental marriage is not generally predicated on the virtue of those joined by it.
"Didn't mean to get off track there, I do wish you the best and appreciate your reply."
You, too.
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