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When my children visit their grandparents, I tell them to go to the Presbyterian church, say the prayers, sing the hymns, and say, "Nice to meet you!" to all the people. I tell them not to take communion, if it's Communion Sunday, because we are not members of their church. I think this is simple good manners for anyone attending a service in a church where he is not a member. With the exception of Catholic services I've attended (since I'm aware of their theological objections, and out of respect for those beliefs), I always take communion when I attend other churches. In fact, it's very common to hear a minister state that "this is not a [insert denominational name here] table, this is the Lord's table. All who believe in Christ as Lord are welcome at His table" (or something to that effect). As such, I always participate (but I can understand Catholics not doing so, since we understand the Lord's supper differently.) Just my 2 cents worth...

Of course, this is a judgment call, as a personal matter. We, as Catholics, have a different understanding of communion than Presbyterians do, so to me it makes sense not to receive communion in their church. I didn't receive communion in the Presbyterian church until I had been confirmed in that church. Since my children haven't been confirmed in the Presbyterian church, they shouldn't receive communion there.

In addition, a simple rule ("Don't receive communion when you go to church with Grandmama.") with a simple reason ("It's not good manners.") eliminates theological arguments :-).