PAR35 -
You may be right that my practice of the Catholic faith has been shaky. However, I am trying to correct that the best way I can.
And, yes, I do talk to my wife about my thoughts about the RCC and Lutheran church. Hopefully, it is not perceived as pressure. We have been members of a ELCA church in the past, but I feel there so much missing from my RC background. I don’t know what it is; I just feel it (.. not to sound too Jedi!)
Actually, it seems that I would never have to ‘convert’ to be a member of any Lutheran church. Is there a procedure in the Lutheran church, similar to the RCIA?
As others have mentioned, the Coming Home Network is also a great resource. Don't worry about it being a difficult path; others have traversed it as well to find it was worthwhile.