Careful, don't misunderstand my intent. I don't want her to feel bad, just to READ. The church does a very thorough and constant job of brainwashing, control with guilt and deflecting anger outward. She's afraid, and blind, not by choice, but because what we are saying and quoting is so EXTREMELY foreign to the church (family) she thinks she knows that she won't accept for a second any part of it could be true. That's why she won't read the stats, and why a Lawyer instead of refuting facts with facts resorts to playground stuff like calling "Baloney".
Teach and share, but don't get mad. They are the biggest victims here....