14 For if ye forgive men their trespasses, your heavenly Father will also forgive you:Luke, Chapter 17:
15 But if ye forgive not men their trespasses, neither will your Father forgive your trespasses.
3 ¶ Take heed to yourselves: If thy brother trespass against thee, rebuke him; and if he repent, forgive him.
4 And if he trespass against thee seven times in a day, and seven times in a day turn again to thee, saying, I repent; thou shalt forgive him.
Haggard never trespassed against me. I don’t need to forgive him.
1Ti 3:1-10 MKJV
(1) Faithful is the Word: If anyone reaches out to overseership, he desires a good work.
(2) Then it behooves the overseer to be without reproach, husband of one wife, temperate, sensible, well-ordered, hospitable, apt at teaching,
(3) not a drunkard, not contentious, not greedy of ill gain, but gentle, not quarrelsome, not covetous,
(4) ruling his own house well, having children in subjection with all honor.
(5) (For if a man does not know to rule his own house, how shall he take care of the church of God?)
(6) not a novice, lest being puffed up he may fall into the condemnation of the Devil.
(7) But he must also have a good report from those on the outside, lest he fall into reproach and the snare of the Devil.
(8) Likewise the deacons are to be reverent, not double-tongued, not given to much wine, not greedy of ill gain,
(9) having the mystery of the faith in a pure conscience.
(10) And let these also first be tested, then let them minister without reproach.