I feel the same way. Any theology that has a man’s name attached to it must be considered suspect right from the gate. No single man can possibly have a handle on the whole counsel of God. Plus, I’ve noticed a kind of arrogance on the part of Calvinists, who seem to believe that the TULIP acrostic explains it all, and if you don’t ascribe to that, then the whiff of brimestone is about you.
Calvin was never born again. He held to some of the tenets of the Catholic faith, one being infant baptism. God showed me that Calvinism is wrong and I will never accept it.