How do we Catholics treat the cross of being called to have a large family? When we see a large family pass by, do we look on them with pity and say to others, "What a burden"? (Mal 1:13) What are our comments about those who suffer from Alzheimers, Down's Syndrome, mental retardation, physical handicaps, etc? How do we respond when we see an overburdened priest, religious brother, or sister? Do we tell others that the cross of celibacy, loneliness, and poverty isn't worth the trouble? If our response to those who carry these crosses is "What a burden," we subtly tell the world that the cross of Jesus is a thing to be avoided, not a thing of triumph. We humble the cross rather than exalt it. Have you humbled or abased the cross of Jesus in any way? Repent! Let's revere the crosses of others in a way that shows the world that we are not ashamed of the cross of Christ Jesus (Rm 1:16; Mk 8:38). Lift high the cross of Christ! Through it, Jesus will draw all men and women to Himself (Jn 12:32). |