Well, I honestly rate a woman as soon as I look at her.
1. I’d do her.
2. I wouldn’t do her.
This is almost subconscious and I am not making an excuse. Can’t remember when it hasn’t been that way.
Let the flamming begin...
I don’t necessarily process that much at first look.
I tend to be more like this story my 85-tear old father in-law (Harold) told me:
He said that one day while in a grocery store he was in the check out line buying a few things. Just 3 or 4 isles down he “noticed” this woman paying for her groceries too.
Harold said that even at his age he could see God had blessed this woman physically.
He said that he must have been day dreaming or something when this woman, looking directly toward him shouted; “Look all you want but you aren’t getting any!”
Harold startled back to conscientiousness, completely embarrassed, froze.
He said he didn’t remember paying for his groceries. At this point he realized he had to exit the store by walking in front of where the woman was checking out.
As he sheepishly passed in front of the woman, he noticed a boy of a bout 3 or 4-years old standing at her feet looking intently at the candy merchandized behind her.
It’s not quite fair to you or her.
I think the problem with that line of thinking is that you are looking at her as a sexual object instead of a person made in the image of God.
Nothing wrong with being a natural human being. Both men and women have a natural sense of who is attractive to themselves individually and who isn't. It is the spiritual man or woman who makes a decision to cleave to one spouse for the greater good of themselves, their children and society. That decision is often tested throughout life.
That is something I tried to teach my offspring -- that rules and spiritual principles for living are not just for children and teenagers -- adults have to continue to make choices every day of their lives.