I suppose I'd have to ping you the next time I make one. The only problem is that I don't care to remember your name.
You're the self-appointed referee here. As usual, you're extremely content-poor discussion-wise (what? you can't discuss the issues and always need to drive home the personalities?)
Therefore, if you're going to appeal to your "relational guidelines" (to put them as mildly as I can), and start blowin' your whistle at what you dislike, may I remind you that refs -- self-appointed or otherwise -- can't pick out one team & only concentrate on them).
Therefore, blow your whistle on all sides -- or yield your referee posture.