Why is it that your friend’s experiences are “facts” and mine are “notions”? Do you see a disconnect there, because I sure do.
Yes, I too see a disconnect. My friend’s experiences are facts because they truly happened, and were systemic within that home.
Do you personally know any person who was “on the inside” living in celibate community? Or are you only going by what you read?
Please tell me that you do not affirm the abuse she and others within that home experienced.