[Yet_Again]

But I do talk to my big brother who died... ...I don’t communicate with the departed... Um, ok.

[ynotjjr]

Yet_Again commented on my statement: "But I do talk to my big brother who died... ...I don’t communicate with the departed"...” Um, ok,”. By your comment “ Um, ok,”, you seem a little confused about the difference between talking to my brother who has passed on and “Communicating” with him, so I took the liberty to get you some professional help with definitions. "Definitions of communicate (v)
exchange information: understand one another." If James had decided to “communicate with me I'm quite sure my heart would have stopped and I would have finished the "exchange" in person. Hope that clears it up for you.