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Contraception: The Bacteria Devouring America’s Soul
Catholic Exchange ^ | 8/27/2010 | Judie Brown

Posted on 08/27/2010 6:52:49 AM PDT by markomalley

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For those who would condemn this as an extremist view, let me pose the following questions:


1 posted on 08/27/2010 6:52:50 AM PDT by markomalley
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To: markomalley

If it’s morally right now, what made it morally wrong then?


2 posted on 08/27/2010 6:58:40 AM PDT by babble-on
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To: markomalley

There are some situations in which contraception is necessary. As for being moral or immoral, that is a matter of opinion.


3 posted on 08/27/2010 6:59:43 AM PDT by RockyMtnMan
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To: markomalley
This is why I recommend that rather than dialoguing, as a whole, every Catholic bishop and every Catholic priest should be teaching, preaching and exhorting.

Right on.

4 posted on 08/27/2010 7:00:03 AM PDT by Tax-chick (I should be, but I'm not.)
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To: markomalley

My wife and I decided that 3 kids was enough, and then I got a vasectomy. How is that wrong?


5 posted on 08/27/2010 7:03:00 AM PDT by reaganaut1
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To: Tax-chick

Our priest gave a great homily on the use of artificial b.c. some time ago. I think I felt some people squirming in their pews ;) It was one of those times when I wanted to jump up and shout ‘AMEN’!

I made sure to thank Father Greg for the great homily after Mass. I hope that countered any ‘hate mail’ he received on the matter.


6 posted on 08/27/2010 7:04:22 AM PDT by Hoosier Catholic Momma (Arkansas resident of Hoosier upbringing--Yankee with a southern twang)
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To: RockyMtnMan

Separating sex from lifelong married commitment is really a detriment to a society, because it diminishes the basic building block institutions of marriage and family.

So, contraception, in and of itself, is amoral, but how it is used certainly a moral question.


7 posted on 08/27/2010 7:04:26 AM PDT by MrB (The difference between a (de)humanist and a Satanist is that the latter knows who he's working for.)
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To: markomalley
People understand absolute truth more as science and understanding progress. For instance, in 1850, the Underground Railroad was a conspiracy of criminals seeking to deprive people of their lawful property; in 2010, the Underground Railroad is understood to be a band of heroic defenders of liberty.

Such is the nature of human progress.

8 posted on 08/27/2010 7:06:10 AM PDT by zort
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To: markomalley

Civil union is an inevitable. We can differentiate CU from ‘marriage’ because of the religious connotations.

Religions emphasize that marriage is a sacred oath. Civil unions are legal partnerships.

If civil unions are ‘permitted’, then the gay community should not be the only beneficiaries.

Two orphaned sisters who find themselves single, by divorce, choice, widowhood, etc., should be able to join in civil unions for the same advantages: property inheritance, job benefits, pensions, insurance and so forth.

Any combination...elderly father and son living together, Mother and daughter, two middle aged ‘friends’ of any sex, etc., who find a civil union would provide legal and financial advantages should have the same access to this legal provision.


9 posted on 08/27/2010 7:06:21 AM PDT by Dudoight
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To: reaganaut1
My wife and I decided that 3 kids was enough, and then I got a vasectomy. How is that wrong?

The key word is "decided". The ability to decide is what separates man from beast. The ability to actually implement one's decisions effectively is what separates advanced societies from primitive ones.

10 posted on 08/27/2010 7:07:33 AM PDT by zort
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To: markomalley
Our culture has fully embraced the idea that recreational sex is good. It's healthy. Everyone does it. Everyone has always done it. Go back 100 years. 500 years. 1000 years -- everybody was constantly having sex, because that's how humans are.

No.

Not long ago, people were sick, and hungry, and overworked. They didn't bathe. They didn't go around in sexy outfits. Yes, they had sex -- but not like Cameron Diaz has sex.

Our culture shows us Henry VIII and says "See? It's always been about sex!" But not everyone is King of England.

Contraception changed everything. Now we are free to be tremendously irresponsible. Before, there were consequences. We have been lessened by our rampant sexual behavior -- but we try to convince ourselves that it's always been this way and that nothing has really changed.

11 posted on 08/27/2010 7:10:40 AM PDT by ClearCase_guy
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To: MrB
I don't see anything wrong with family planning for 40+ year olds that have been married for years and have many children. There are specific medical conditions where contraception is absolutely necessary.

It has to be taken on a case by case basis. Having sex out of wed lock is amoral, from a Christian point of view, regardless of contraception. I don't see where contraception is amoral, it is a tool, like a gun, that accomplishes a function. Tools are not amoral but how they are used can be.

12 posted on 08/27/2010 7:12:46 AM PDT by RockyMtnMan
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To: RockyMtnMan; little jeremiah; wagglebee
As for being moral or immoral, that is a matter of opinion.

No, it is not. It is a matter of moral judgment, as to whether something is right or wrong, just as the morality or immorality of (for example) abortion, racial discrimination, theft, adultery, and drunk driving are matters of moral judgment.

If you wish to say that there are no genuine judgments of right or wrong, that in itself is a judgment that you have made, and it's one that requires a defense, rather than simply an assertion.

This post (if I may extrapolate) demonstrates the author's point about the uselessness of "dialogue." If dialogue is only, "This is your opinion; that is my opinion," with the assumption that there is no right or wrong, it's a waste of time. Useful dialogue would start with the premise that there is a right and wrong, which we can determine using our reason, and that all the parties involved are interested in finding the truth and living according to it.

In the absence of that bedrock principle - which is the ambient state of our society - exhortation is what is needed, especially from our clergy.

13 posted on 08/27/2010 7:16:09 AM PDT by Tax-chick (I should be, but I'm not.)
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To: RockyMtnMan

People need to seriously think through the question of whether they’re cut out to be parents — and, if the answer is “no”, to take appropriate precautions.


14 posted on 08/27/2010 7:16:34 AM PDT by zort
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To: Hoosier Catholic Momma

I’ve done the same when our pastors have spoken out.


15 posted on 08/27/2010 7:17:08 AM PDT by Tax-chick (I should be, but I'm not.)
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To: Hoosier Catholic Momma
Our priest gave a great homily on the use of artificial b.c. some time ago. I think I felt some people squirming in their pews ;) It was one of those times when I wanted to jump up and shout ‘AMEN’!
Plaudits to Fr Greg. Fr John gave a similar homily at our church, and it was just weeks after his very descriptive partial birth abortion homily. After the BC one, there were literally people waiting for him after Mass. Ugly scene. They transferred him within weeks.
16 posted on 08/27/2010 7:19:21 AM PDT by mlizzy (Hail Mary, full of grace, the Lord is with thee ...)
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To: Dudoight
Any combination...elderly father and son living together, Mother and daughter, two middle aged ‘friends’ of any sex, etc., who find a civil union would provide legal and financial advantages should have the same access to this legal provision.

I agree. If there is a need for the legal provisions of "domestic partnership," on top of what current contract law already provides, then whether the couple or group is engaging in some kind of sexual activity should be irrelevant.

As a practical point, I question whether this legal provision is necessary, unless it forcibly (so to speak) tidies up the current stew of contract, power-of-attorney, estates-and-trusts, real estate, and other relevant law.

17 posted on 08/27/2010 7:20:07 AM PDT by Tax-chick (I should be, but I'm not.)
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To: RockyMtnMan

Slight clarification of terms:
amoral - having no moral component, no right or wrong attribute.

immoral - morally wrong

Now, I’m sure you meant that sex outside of marriage is IMmoral from a Christian point of view. Contraception is Amoral - it’s a tool or a concept. Tools are Amoral.

With that clarification, you and I agree.
Contraception use in marriage is the choice of the couple involved.


18 posted on 08/27/2010 7:23:48 AM PDT by MrB (The difference between a (de)humanist and a Satanist is that the latter knows who he's working for.)
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An individuals judgment is formed by ones own opinion, therefore it is an opinion that contraception is amoral. Under specific religious structures those opinions are defined for you to guide your judgment. Mankind has many religious structures to pick from and the opinion of each varies.

Catholics are of the opinion all contraception is amoral, most of us are not Catholic.

19 posted on 08/27/2010 7:26:43 AM PDT by RockyMtnMan
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To: reaganaut1
The opposite of unconditional love is 'planned parenthood.' I know that sounds harsh and very hypocritcal from someone who also had only 3 planned children, but, really now, shouldn't a child be loved just because they ARE, not because they fit into a parents plans? After all, no child is perfect enough to fit our true 'plans.' The whole idea of 'planning' children fits into a selfish lifestyle that we shouldn't be bothered by 'unwanted people.'

It's a whole thought system.

IF suddenly another child was shoved into your life (pregnancy, adoption, space aliens cloned/doubled one of your children) would you love another child just because he was there?

20 posted on 08/27/2010 7:28:53 AM PDT by eccentric
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