Proverbs 3:5ff is not a verse that overrides the clear teachings of Christ Jesus and our teacher the Holy Spirit in the Epistles. It is incorrect usage of Proverbs 3:5ff to be invoked in order to override other clear teachings in the New Testament. Besides, Proverbs was written to the Jews for a completely purpose in which everybody today understands Proverbs. One day I will post those truths for all to see once my book is complete.
If Christ teaches us in Ephesians 1:4 "According as he hath chosen us in him before the foundation of the world...". Then we are not to utilize or invoke Proverbs 3:5ff to override these clear teachings.
Please contunue to study His word with an open mind and heart.
It is very dangerous to say that you have some special insight into His truth.
I will not argue this point further.
Peace to you and love.