It was pretty bad. Basically her lies cost me my job at a time when my wife was undergoing treatment for cancer and I needed the insurance.
If I had been one more day finding a new job, she could have been denied coverage because of a pre-existing condition.
As it was, everything worked out fine for me, but that wasn’t to her credit.
I recently lost a friend to cancer, so I understand. I can’t fathom why people will tell falsehoods about someone else, much less when the ramifications can be devastating. It denotes a lack of conscious, total egocentrism.