Who precisely is “we”?
The denomination I grew up in; we were taught basically that everyone else except us was going to hell.
It tends to give you a rather tragic view of humanity.
I’ve lived in catholic countries and worshipped many times in catholic churches, I’ve known many genuine catholic Christians, so needless to say I’ve come to a different point of view.
If you are a committed catholic Christian, you know God, Christ is alive in your life, then you are my brother and thats the end of it. I see you as a fellow Christian and thats it.
I still have a rather tragic view of humanity, but I recognize a believing Christian where I find him. There are discernible fingerprints.