Not slow, just need to get back under my bridge before the sun comes up.
In regards to “spreading ugliness around”, hijacking a thread by building strawman arguments to be used against the OP is what I find ugly. An inability or unwillingness to distinguish between the system vs. the people is a pattern of behavior on these threads.
If, as you say, you don’t know much about the system of mormonISM and your sample size of mormons is ~10, does that grant you a greater license to make hay? What about someone who was a member for some years married to an active mormon for over 20? What kind of license do they warrant?
Crawling back under my bridge now...
Just follow the woman's example.
I thought I was adding something positive by saying something nice about people in a group that I had worked closely with for several years and also got to know their families. I was wrong...all that came to mind after a few of the negative responses was: "No good deed goes unpunished."
And please come out from under your bridge, it's a beautiful day up here.