I was just explaining to my daughters this week the advantages of getting a wedding dress at a consignment or thrift store. (There was an attractive, basic gown in the window at The Salvation Army.) If you spend $100 at TSA and another $150 getting it altered, you’ve still done really well, especially for something you’re only going to wear once.
I had mine made by a seamstress: about $100 for the fabric and another $200 for the sewing, iirc.
Prayers for your husband and thank you for sharing that to us young ‘uns
The only time I ever paid more than $10K for a car was when we bought my wife’s car at the end of its lease (she leased it shortly before we began dating; I had no say in that).
Not to mention we spent less than that on our entire wedding. We were married in a chapel in Lake Tahoe, NV with only our immediate families in attendance and our reception was a month later (long story short, we got married on the way to a race event in Kansas I was competing in) with about 70 guests.
We haven’t topped you on longevity, but we’re working on it! We celebrated our 10th anniversary last September.