Only when called for.
Would you like the word “sisterhood” or “friendship” or “warm feeling of community” better?
There are better places to get that than a "church" that embraces homosexuality.
I don’t believe that it “embraces” homosexuality - it embraces its congregants, some of whom, just happen to be gay and I am not a fan of the gay life style. Did you not hear of the book and film “The Fellowship of the Ring”? Do you think that the Hobbits are gay? There is always the possibility that church membership helps people to walk the straight and narrow.