If a person is willing to abuse you, he may be willing to kill you.
If a person has an addiction problem, generally speaking, getting that high is all that matters to him.
If a person has abandoned the marriage, he doesn’t consider himself married to you. There is no relationship to speak of
Are you really willing to stay married to a person who is willing to kill you, financially destroy you, or not be in a relationship at all with you?
Jonty, It seems that you’ve met my soon-to-be-ex wife!
Mat 19:9 And I say unto you, Whosoever shall put away his wife, except it be for fornication, and shall marry another, committeth adultery: and whoso marrieth her which is put away doth commit adultery.
Mat 19:10 His disciples say unto him, If the case of the man be so with his wife, it is not good to marry.
Mat 19:11 But he said unto them, All men cannot receive this saying, save they to whom it is given.
Mat 19:12 For there are some eunuchs, which were so born from their mother’s womb: and there are some eunuchs, which were made eunuchs of men: and there be eunuchs, which have made themselves eunuchs for the kingdom of heaven’s sake. He that is able to receive it, let him receive it.