I'm sorry to hear that. So are the unemployed and the families of American citizens who have been killed by illegals.
Yes, I'm sure my deciding to withhold money from my parish - is that the expected expression of distress? - would be announced on CCN and make everyone feel better. Suddenly there would be jobs for everyone, and there would be no more murders, rapes, or fatal drunk-driving accidents ... or anyway, everyone would feel better because I'd made a gesture.
No, actually. Nobody except me gives a flying FReep what I think, and not contributing to my parish would do nothing about unemployment or crime, whether such is an effect of illegal immigration or of other factors.
I do what I think is useful: I vote against Democrats and work on campaigns against Democrats at every opportunity. I don't consider being upset useful.