I had the idea - even before I joined the LDS Church - to start a club of sorts where a family in one part of the world who had a family member or friend who was buried in another part of the world partner up with a family in that other part of the world where THEIR loved one was buried. Sheeesh. That was hard to say. Anyway, I wish someone in Oakland could visit my babies’ graves to make sure they are well kept and place flowers once in a while and take a picture for me. And I would be willing to do the same for someone whose loved one is buried in Fresno. Whew!
I'm not "into" grave decorating myself but it sounds like it could work for people who are.