I’m not Catholic. I did go to a midnight mass with my wife once near downtown Seattle though. She comes from a VERY devout Irish Catholic family. In her mid 30’s she became the family black sheep when she went protestant.
You would still be welcome. There are non-Catholics who come to the Easter Vigil Mass in particular because they find it so inspirational.
;-)
Please tell you wife that as a baptized Catholic she is marked FOREVER as a baptized Catholic.
She is always welcome to come back to the church.....she’s just not a practicing Catholic right now.
I personally invite her to come back to the richness of faith.