All just a bunch of religious nuttery. Wife and I lived together before our marriage after we were engaged, no sense in her renewing her apartment. Been together nearly 20 years and doing just fine. In fact, living together DID answer a number of good questions about us.
What were you going to do if she got pregnant just as you were coming to the conclusion that she was insufferable? Were you thinking of the potential risk to a child of having parents who were not yet married?
Same here. My wife and moved in together while we were still engaged. It just didn’t make sense for me to extend the lease on my apartment. Despite S&F’s links, at 20+ years we’re still in love, still together, raised children to adulthood, etc. I think he’d have us believe, that those who don’t believe as he does are doomed to a life of misery pain.