I understand. My take is that often the bible makes room for multiple interpretations. After all, even Saul got it wrong and was killing Christians until Jesus set him straight and changed his name. I have no dog in this hunt as I used to get really hung up on this stuff (80’s and 90’s) but now just try to educate myself so I know it when I see it. I was originally a pre-tribulationist, but now lean strongly to mid-trib, also called “post-trib, pre-wrath”.
I’ve heard other theories but no one has ever been able to give Scripture to support anything other than a pre-Trib Rapture.