I think that if Msgr. Pope gave this homily at St. Anybody’s in Suburbia, USA, any man who actually listened to it would get home with the message that whatever problems a family might have are the woman’s fault, because more could not possibly be expected of himself ... why, he hasn’t run away with an Argentinian floozy, has he? That’s superhuman self-sacrifice right there!
(Just blowing off a little steam.)
Some people are clueless about a lot of things. (I am inside this category looking out, not outside this category looking in.) They/we/I benefit from having things spelled out with utmost explicicity. Explicitness. Expliciosity. Broken down in steps, with arrows as needed.