[Rashputin]

Ok, you resolve the unresolved conflict. They shed the person they were attracted to due to that unresolved conflict, move on to the next unresolved conflict and so on, until the only unresolved conflict is their not being able to pay your bill so they then become attracted to you.

[tired&retired]

“so they then become attracted to you”

Funny that you say that with the perspective of your screen name namesake, Rashputin! That was his pattern.

I always direct people to find their strength within by looking toward God, never toward me. When they try to find their strength from me, I direct them toward God.

God likes a flat organizational chart. Everyone is to have their own direct connection, never through me or anyone else.