it seems that rather than pose a question and see where the answer leads you, you feel the need to control the direction of the conversation.
sometimes when we let things go a bit differently than we intended we open our minds a bit
1) catholic marriages always have a spiritual component :) 2. it just may be that sometimes what attracts someone to someone else might just be their catholic faith. so romantic love and hence marriage is a valid answer to your question of spiritual conversion and the drawing together of two people in catholic marriage is indeed a beautiful and spiritually mysterious thing:)
People have been generally unresponsive, and now you’re lecturing me on being open to wherever answers lead me when I haven’t really got an answer, so nevermind. I’m outran the conversation.