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christianmingle was not the site I got booted from.

So I don’t know if the people there are anti-Catholic, support gay marriage and are pro birth control. Now they said they were anti abortion but if they are pro birth control then they already have their foot in the abortion clinic if you all know what I mean.

Oh and did I also fail to say that over half I’d never be able to marry in this life time because they are DIVORCED? Yep they kinda found Jesus after their divorce it would seem. So with the protestants on that site marriage is for better, for worse but not for life.

Then because over half are divorced they all have children to which they say “my child comes first”. Have no problem with this, glad to see you take care of your responsibility. However that kinda makes me feel like an outsider coming into that family unit. Plus the first time I correct that child for something he/she does wrong the child will run to the biological parent and call me “the wicked stepmother” Sorry everyone I don’t need this crap. I don’t want some divorced man or his extra baggage.

Widowers are okay however. Even ones with children, because there is no biological mother to run to and make me the wicked stepmother.

Yep they kinda found Jesus after their divorce it would seem. So with the protestants on that site marriage is for better, for worse but not for life.

You have no idea about their divorce circumstances, but I'm sure they admire your piety.

Plus the first time I correct that child for something he/she does wrong the child will run to the biological parent and call me “the wicked stepmother” Sorry everyone I don’t need this crap. I don’t want some divorced man or his extra baggage. Widowers are okay however. Even ones with children, because there is no biological mother to run to and make me the wicked stepmother.

LOL, looks like you need no help.

Being Catholic myself, I'm not a big fan of divorce, but sometimes:
There's valid reasons - Affairs, drugs, abuse, criminal behavior
There's no say in the matter. One wants out. The other is religious and doesn't believe in it.

I don't blanket judge all cases.