Very true. Richard Rodriguez, a practicing Gay ex-Catholic (practicing Gay, not practicing Catholic)-— and very talented California writer -— has remarked that contracepting couples are heterosexual gays.
Ouch!
Have you heard of or read this book?
http://www.onemoresoul.com/catalog/the-bible-and-birth-control-p193.html
The word gay originally mean the same as “ libertine. This is a person who observes no limits.