Oh I agree with you that it is individual issues that drive people away from the Church. Many of us have had personally bad experiences with the Church growing up at either Catholic school or at our local parishes. I generally err on the side of it was the Church’s fault because the Church has done a really good job alienating people over the past forty or so years.
How can a blameless church be run by imperfect men?
I/family had no bad experience w/the CC or their attached school, grammar and high school. I finally left because of their man made teachings which void God's Word. They are a deceiver.