Single, celibate, and sane here. Watch who you call abnormal. ;)
/johnny
In this case abnormal is good. Sane however might be a stretch there. :)
Tim Tebow was probably desired all the more because he made it clear he is a man of principle and purity. I think a woman wants to know that a man would honor her by giving her what he would give nobody else. Then it means something. And it’s probably the same for a man.
It’s good for spouses to not have to battle memories and comparisons. There are enough tough things to work through without that added burden. The most important sex organ in the body is the brain. Injuring or mis-programming it can be about as damaging as whacking off the other parts. There is forgiveness and new beginnings are possible but it’s a tougher road, I think. A wedding ring doesn’t magically change the tendencies and thought processes of a lifetime.
If the Lord wills (and if you’re interested. lol), you’ll have a heckuva lot to offer the wonderful woman He provides for you. =)