[sinatorhellary]

I think your post makes a non-Calvinistic point...

He courts and proposes because he knows she has the choice to say no.

Just like the lost can say no to God's proposal.

[Thane_Banquo]

I think your post makes a non-Calvinistic point... He courts and proposes because he knows she has the choice to say no.

Just like the lost can say no to God's proposal..

You're stretching the metaphor beyond its intent. Does God ever go on a rescue mission that fails? To propose that anyone can resist salvation from God is to say that God can fail to save someone.