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THAT DIDN’T TAKE LONG: PRAISING MULTI-SPOUSE MARRIAGE
Catholic Vote ^ | August 6, 2013 | Tom Hoopes

Posted on 08/06/2013 6:23:49 PM PDT by NYer

multipouseThat didn’t take long. Salon magazine this morning is extolling the virtues of multi-spouse marriages.

Same-sex “marriage” proponents have always scoffed at the idea that redefining marriage would open the door for multi-spouse marriages. “My Two Husbands by Angi Becker Stevens, not only argues for “poly-amorous” unions but continues to scoff at the foolish “right wing” people who expected people to go there. Her article is novel only in that it also scoffs at the same-sex marriage definers who argued back that it wouldn’t.

Stevens has been married for 16 years to her husband, and has now taken a boy\friend who she says she plans to marry in a “non-legal” way.

“With every stride forward for marriage equality, I can count on turning on the TV to find conservative talking heads lumping families like mine in with pedophilia and bestiality. But liberals, for the most part, don’t treat us much better. They’re quick to insist that same-sex marriage would never, ever lead to such awful things”.

The author uses her 9-year-old daughter to deflect criticism. Her daughter dutifully and understandably repeats the adult arguments for same-sex marriage and applies them to the

“When my daughter talks about same-sex marriage or polyamorous relationships, she always looks perplexed and says, ‘I don’t understand why anyone is angry about people being in love and not hurting anyone.’ And I long for a world where everyone is able to see it so simply.

And later …

“Whenever I mention the claims that polyamory is bad for children, she rolls her eyes and says, ‘Oh no, kids having more people to love them! How horrible!’”

In the style of such articles, the author doesn’t make a case against monogamous marriage on principle, or for multi-spouse “marriage” on principle. Instead, it presents the facts of a particular situation as a fait accompli and challenges you to argue why it is not so. She felt repressed before and says “I am more fulfilled now and living in a way that feels authentic for me.”

Apply a simple thought experiment, and her argument starts to wither. Imagine the article being written by a man about bringing a “girlfriend” into his life and convincing his wife to tolerate it. Or imagine a Mormon talking about his repressed relationship with God instead of a political activist talking about her repressed human relationships. Salon wouldn’t have published those pieces.

But they did publish this one.

Because “love makes a marriage” now. And to say otherwise means you’re a hater.

For the record: I love these people. I wish them all the best in their personal lives. But I oppose multi-spouse marriage anyway.


TOPICS: Moral Issues; Religion & Culture; Religion & Politics
KEYWORDS: gaymarriage; homosexualagenda; marriage; moralabsolutes; polyandry; polygamy; radicalleft
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1 posted on 08/06/2013 6:23:49 PM PDT by NYer
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To: netmilsmom; thefrankbaum; Tax-chick; GregB; saradippity; Berlin_Freeper; Litany; SumProVita; ...

Train wreck ahead, ping!


2 posted on 08/06/2013 6:24:22 PM PDT by NYer ( "Run from places of sin as from the plague."--St John Climacus)
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To: NYer
I love my dog.

(no, not THAT way)

3 posted on 08/06/2013 6:26:06 PM PDT by Paladin2
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To: NYer

The end is truly neigh.........


4 posted on 08/06/2013 6:26:26 PM PDT by basil (2ASisters.org)
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To: NYer

Here we go....


5 posted on 08/06/2013 6:27:19 PM PDT by yellowdoghunter (Welcome to Obamastan....)
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To: basil

I open my iPhone and it is the days of Noah.


6 posted on 08/06/2013 6:28:26 PM PDT by yellowdoghunter (Welcome to Obamastan....)
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To: NYer

Young kids are next......NAMBLA..... I can already taste the vomit in my mouth


7 posted on 08/06/2013 6:28:37 PM PDT by irish guard
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To: irish guard

i am gonna make millions with my barf bag vending machines


8 posted on 08/06/2013 6:31:29 PM PDT by bigheadfred (INFIDEL)
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To: NYer
Good, I can marry my beer now.

FIVE REASONS WHY BEER IS BETTER THAN A WOMAN:

(1) Hangovers go away
(2) You know you're the first person to crack open a beer.

(3) You don't have to wine and dine beer.
(4) A beer doesn't get jealous when you grab another beer.
(5) Beer labels come off without a fight.

9 posted on 08/06/2013 6:31:51 PM PDT by Extremely Extreme Extremist (Governor Sarah Heath Palin for President of the United States in 2016)
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To: NYer

“love makes a marriage” now. And to say otherwise means you’re a hater.

Well guess I’m a proud hater~~~marriage is a commitment of one man/one woman to raise other humans~~family~

“what’s love got to do with it”!;)


10 posted on 08/06/2013 6:33:48 PM PDT by Isabel2010
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To: NYer

I’ve been telling my wife for years I want to marry our cat. For some reason she just laughs and doesn’t get jealous. But one day it’s going to happen.


11 posted on 08/06/2013 6:34:17 PM PDT by kaehurowing
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To: NYer

“Resolved: That the Constitution confers upon Congress sovereign powers over the Territories of the United States for their government; and that in the exercise of this power, it is both the right and the imperative duty of Congress to prohibit in the Territories those twin relics of barbarism—Polygamy, and Slavery.”- 1856 Republican party platform.

It took a civil war to end slavery. Is that what it will take to eliminate polygamy and homo marriage?


12 posted on 08/06/2013 6:34:33 PM PDT by GenXteacher (You have chosen dishonor to avoid war; you shall have war also.)
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To: NYer

Why just be a gruesome twosome when you can be a grisly trio?


13 posted on 08/06/2013 6:34:46 PM PDT by tumblindice (America's founding fathers: All armed conservatives.)
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To: NYer

Seems the Camel has its nose in the tent ... body to follow.


14 posted on 08/06/2013 6:35:02 PM PDT by doc1019 (Get our troops the hell out of the ME)
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Great. Now the Pig in a Spit Roast gets to redefine marriage as well.

Thanks so much, Justices Kennedy and Roberts!


15 posted on 08/06/2013 6:35:25 PM PDT by Yossarian
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If that is her picture, those two boys needed sex in a bad way.

They probably got it in a bad way too,

She IS a dog.


16 posted on 08/06/2013 6:36:19 PM PDT by Venturer ( cowardice posturing as tolerance =political correctness)
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I'm not sure the 2 on the right aren't siblings....

/johnny

17 posted on 08/06/2013 6:36:22 PM PDT by JRandomFreeper (Gone Galt)
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To: Venturer

One of them looks like her brother. Is he?


18 posted on 08/06/2013 6:37:23 PM PDT by Venturer ( cowardice posturing as tolerance =political correctness)
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To: NYer

Larry Niven saw all this stuff coming. Only thing we don’t have yet is the aliens. And I’m not sure about that.


19 posted on 08/06/2013 6:37:45 PM PDT by Hardraade (http://junipersec.wordpress.com (Obama: the bearded lady of Muslim Brotherhood))
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To: Venturer
That was my thought (see the post before yours).

/johnny

20 posted on 08/06/2013 6:39:39 PM PDT by JRandomFreeper (Gone Galt)
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