Makes me consider going back to the Independent Fundamentalist Baptists.
I never left (no condemnation on my part, just stating a fact).
Even that might not be the answer. There are many Independent Fundamentalist Baptists churches that have female Pastors and accept homosexual marriages.
Anyone can be ordained (online and through liberal ministries), start a church and call it a Baptist congregation. Outside the SBC, there is no governing body to control who can call themselves Baptists and open a Baptist church. So, care must be taken in church selection.
Sad, sad world we live in.