So if you're really suffering, it's a GOOD thing because it means God REALLY, REALLY loves you...... Wow, is that twisted thinking about God.Who do you think suffered the most on earth? Jesus, perhaps? Do you think it is "twisted" that G-d allowed His Son to suffer that much?
It’s not the suffering but rather the mentality that the suffering is some kind of barometer of how much God loves us.
THAT is what is twisted.