I don't know where the universe "came" from. Physics is poorly understood prior to the Planck epoch; perhaps in the future we'll achieve a greater understanding. Perhaps not.
And humans are just an accident of chemistry & biology?
As far as I can tell...yes.
And with untold trillions x 1099999 ... of planets, where are all the other (accidental) life forms?
We don't have the technology to detect life on extrasolar planets, although the next generation of space telescopes may indirectly show evidence of life by detecting significant amounts of free oxygen in the atmospheres of such planets.